You deserve the best and most loving grown kids. Keep busy. Put yourself first. I dream of the life you have now
God is there for you so as to be a source of strength. There are many religions and ways of prayer that bring healing and comfort.
My brother was borderline. I chased his love for decades, begging for approval. Most of the important people in my life are borderline and I had to figure out why I put up with and attract these personalities. Now that I’ve figured it out, I’m going to make friends with low drama people and just keeping things very simple.
Must be very painful for you. Bit I just admire your wisdom and strength in this situation. Divorce abusive husband after many years is heroic! (Personal experience)Finding wisdom to separate yourself from problems of your loved ones is another great challenge!! Wow!
My son is (26) years old and he’s constantly making irresponsible and reckless decisions. Whatever he can do to get attention he does it-good or bad. I’m so disappointed with the decisions he’s made/making. He’s the oldest and doesn’t show to be a role model to anyone. He is constantly talking about the purge, the antichrist, and working like slaves. Just simply no respect for my rules, my house, husband, children or me. He thinks he can come and go all times of the night. Notably, my husband nor I come in after 2:00 am.
I’ve tried everything to help me get his life back. However, he’s so anger, bitter and entitled that he thinks I owe him. He continues to say he never had a dad he’s always had a step dad. Yes, I will always love him but that doesn’t mean I have like or agree with what he does. His most recent outlash was tattooing his face. I just don’t know who he is anymore.
They have an innate need to rebel against authority figures and it wouldnt be a terrible thing to use that energy to forge a better relationship
Can you volunteer at their school or effectively reach them on social media? Having a grandparent/anyone who is supportive Is a Huge Difference to a teenager. Just use your time wisely so it can withstand scrutiny from their parents.
Source: Was a teen who rebelled into bad things to make parents mad. If their “rebellion” is visiting their grandmother then go you guys.
Got this reason, I should allow him to be him and love him regardless
My 35 yr old daughter, met, got married and move to a new state with her husband & my Grandaughter in less than 1 yr. She gave up the stability of family living near by and state assistance. She was a single mom for 9 yrs and doing all the right things to get off state assistance.
They fought all the time in front of the kids( he has a 9 yr old son). He threatened to leave her every week and finally moved out After 4 months of marriage . My daughter cannot afford the rent and has been trying to find a roommate, I am paying for childcare after school but the summer is coming and I have offered to put her in summer camp and stay with Grandma & Grandpa for the summer. We offered to have my daughter move in with us for 3 months to get her life back in order. My fear is, my daughter is making poor decisions and I want my Granddaughter to have stability and not have to worry about getting a roommate to pay the bills. When do I step in and stop just trying to fix things? We have given her Glendale escort service money, cars, picked her up at 2 in the morning when her car broke down. Am I helping or hurting the situation? Any suggestions?