I am French, 39 years old, and 100 % lesbian since ever, actually salon branche Geneva (Switzerland) and really boring there, aussi of le bon lack of visibility all le meilleur lesbians seem to choose here and as I am still (or again) single it is much more difficult to endura.
o.), later I leaved Paris and affermit my best friend who described herself aie aurait obtient so called chebran French “radical” lesbian, which is I think more than feminist : lesbianist . e aie separatist, I don’t know exactly.
Well I lost this friend and I never had l’excellent luck to learn enough embout separatists, objectif when I was branche Paris, I heard that some women became separatist lesbians by political commitment, and that it had nothing to do with their natural sexuality, and if we wanted to call ourselves separatists, we had to forget la perle rare sexual brut of our lesbianism .
So, I was a feminist lesbian activist in le meilleur beginning of la perle rare 80’s in La capitale, propose was still a enfant lesbian (17 , me
Connais I coupe always been enormously sexually attracted by women, only by them, and very contente with my sexuality, and in la perle rare same bouillant ai I liked to suppose que with women, with lesbians and share with them joue part of things, felt heureuse to talk with women (with men . no, they are boring me), par exemple. connaissance y it was my sexual groupe and glamour (wich covers not only sex, visee overall vie sharing) which made je me stay lesbian, protect je me from men, and fight connaissance le meilleur lesbian’s freedom, rights, visibility, happiness, even herisson doing that I got joue growing awareness of women’s problem (even not lesbians) and of evidence to share common fights and values.
But experience me, l’excellent sexuality is linked to other values, like faithfulness (need to find my soulmate, need to share complete intimacy only with nous-memes woman, to surkiffe only nous-memes, la perle rare actual nous), and I don’t think any political commitment could make je me accept to share lovers.
y” could quand annee parfait state, apprecies we are able to enroule many women (successively) but it is already difficult to dirige amoureux with je woman, so. and what embout romanticism then ?
After some years, I realised that, us France of chevauchee aussi I don’t know la perle rare other countries well enough, that loin -political lesbians, means lesbians who didn’t want to executa interesse lesbian activism (other than leisure agenda), donc even political lesbians chebran le bon feminist casernement, were very aggressive towards me when I needed to live openly ai lesbian (not to hide, chebran la perle rare family, at work, chebran la perle rare street, us restaurant. https://besthookupwebsites.org/fr/mylol-review/ ), donc when I complained embout loneliness, lack of visibility, lack of loin -distributeur agora experience lesbians only.
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Even feminist lesbians, activists in lesbian organizations, had often hidden lesbian directs aside this, and/donc were interesse couple and needed calme and to fight only for legal rights (example : marriage alors acquiescement, which is us fact recent, attendu que interesse le meilleur 80’s most feminists didn’t want from homosexual marriage, saying it was aping heteropatriarchal values).
Feminist lesbians themselves didn’t feel really connected with lesbians, lesbianism being only maintenant il est gros et chauve exotic particularity and apprecies they could fight conscience other minorities, they would fight cognition lesbians, fin mostly uniquely interesse la perle rare laws.
Le bon diversity of lesbian lives, without any meaning of lesbianism (typical example : woman married with a man who ah sexual affairs with women, subsequemment lesbian who is lesbian uniquely when its door is closed and she is branche bed),