But apparently there are a whole bunch of non-SP women out there just dying to give away bare back sex for free!
SPs always have condoms. I am always prepared! The drunk girl/guy at the bar who randomly hook up typically aren’t and they are drunk so they have poor judgement and skip the condom.. Also, many average everyday people are too scared to get tested, or ashamed, or embarrassed, or just ignorant.
There is a wealth of knowledge on the internet and some sites (like perb) even have a health nurse whom you can ask for advice. And even if you are playing safe, it is important to get tested regularly (every 3-6 months depending how often you play). My favorite clinic is this one, they let you use an alias name if you wish and they are very professional and NOT judgemental:
Play safe and have fun everyone! And if she says “I’m allergic to latex, we don’t need to use a condom”… RUN!
** I do not use the word slut in a mean or hurtful way. I am a proud slut! I think being a slut is a good thing as long as you are an ethical slut. By ethical slut I mean that you are honest, safe, and do your best not to emotionally or physically harm or endanger others. (See the book The Ethical Slut- great book!)