According to his profile, he joined 3 weeks ago, I checked the date and it was the date we had a huge argument because he was acting really suspiciously with his phone. I knew something was up.
Please can someone tell me – What the fuck do I do? But he looks after DC in my home while I work, and provides money we really can’t afford to lose.
I’ve had a really horrendous year – I had an abnormal smear this year which required surgery and has really damaged my mental health, this is absolutely the last thing I needed
I actually tried to end things with him earlier this year when things didn’t feel great for me.. but he refused and said he wanted us both to try and fix things instead. To then go and do this?
We have one young DC – we don’t live together at the moment luckily
But he looks after DC in my home while I work, and provides money we really can’t afford to lose.
Its HIS child too.. he will still have to pay for his child OP. please do not accept this as reasonable behaviour in a relationship. honestly he is treating you like dirt.
I know! He’s just been really horrible before when we’ve been arguing, and he’s withheld money and contact for days, it’s caused me huge issues with work.
Get rid. Go through cm. Find your independence and your self worth. Men like this enjoy abusing women, they’re often misogynistic and liars. Don’t waste any more time, there are too many sites out there he could be on
Basically he is a manipulative, abusive shitbag. Dump him (change your locks first if he has a key) and do not let him into your home again under any circumstances. File for child support asap. Might also be wise to see what other benefits you can claim.
And if you can get a payment from him somehow before you tell him it’s over, that would be handy. Lees verder