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I love ‘nerdy’ boys and I’m very lucky that my school is quite science and tech focused. However, a lot of them are incredibly cute and endearing but very shy and give off mixed signals. With other guys, it’s fairly straight forward but I know quite a few self-professed ‘dorks’ that I would go out to dinner with if only they’d ask.

There have been numerous threads on what girls like in guys, but now I’m asking the opposite question; what do smart guys like yourselves like in girls? If possible, I’d be interested in opinions on or from college-aged guys. Thanks!

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I figured I’d have to do that, good idea I was just curious about which qualities the guys find attractive in girls.

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I figured I’d have to do that, good idea I was just curious about which qualities the guys find attractive in girls.

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If this ever happens to me with a girl, I think I’ll mary her. 3 X Horray for a women’s initiative!

Well, joke aside, in general, it seems to me that the more intelligent a person is (no matter of which gender), the more the person seeks in another person. More specific, the importance of physical appearance will decrease (although it’s disputable by itself – beauty is an absolutely subjective category, and I hate persons who avoid to admit that!), but I don’t believe much.

If by “nerdy” you mean intelligent, that opens another debate, since there is something called emotial intelligence, and it definitely doesn’t need to appear in pairs with (let’s say) non-emotional intelligence (let’s say you’re a physics genious or so). Lees verder →