Love bombing may very well be the scariest thing that can happen while dating. Not only is it an extremely manipulative Cougar dating app tactic used by narcissists, abusers, and, ahem, con artists, but its also very, very hard to detect and suss out as its happening. (As I said, scary.)
“Love bombing is characterized by excessive attention, admiration, and affection with the goal to make the recipient feel dependent and obligated to that person,” says licensed therapist Sasha Jackson, LCSW.
“And as the recipient, love bombing feels really good because of the boost of dopamine and endorphins you receive. You feel special, needed, loved, valuable, and worthy, which are all the components that contribute to and increase a persons self-esteem.”
At the beginning, everything may seem perfect-maybe even too perfect. You might think youve found someone who is not only into you but also showers you with attention, love, gifts, etc. Like, all the validation and affirmation youve been waiting for. But then, later on, your relationship may turn into something you dont even recognize. Lees verder