Every couple of months I’ll be inspired by an unattached friend who is joyfully dating with the help of an algorithm or a starry-eyed couple who met via the swipe of a thumb, and decide to give online dating another chance.
In the era of wall-to-wall dating apps, can you still find love offline?
I’ll download the suggested app, create a profile, ask friends for advice on the pictures, and begin swiping. There will be matches, charming conversations, there might even be some dates or a season-long romance.
Tina Roth Eisenberg: “People are lonely and are so happy when someone takes charge and gets humans together.” Credit: Getty Images
More often, however, the online dating lull will set in just as it begins to feel like a game rather than a legitimate way to meet people. Conversations unexpectedly fizzle, sparks don’t translate in person, dates are cancelled, matches are neglected like a forgotten Tamagotchi.
Disenchanted, I’ll delete the app and decide to leave dating up to fate. Lees verder