Shouldn’t that sort of thing just happen organically? Misinterpretation isn’t the only way to playfully build sexual tension over text. Sexual innuendo (changing the meaning of what she says to make it sound sexual) is also a great tool to use in your texts to women.

Not yet :)” A playful text like this helps her to see you as a sexual being without you coming on too strong

Another easy way to casually infuse sex into your conversation is the “let’s do it” text. If she texts you something like “Want to go to a show at 6?” you can respond with “Let’s do it. Go to the show, I mean… not sex.

If you want to learn how to start sexting a girl, you need to learn to build sexual tension playfully. And while flirting is great, at a certain point you’ll have to dive in and really own and express your sexual desires.

When the moment is right – and you’ll know when you can cross this exciting line – you can and should tell her what you’re thinking, feeling, and wanting. Doing this can feel edgy for many of guys, but it’s necessary to take that risk. Lees verder →